by Guest Author | Sep 28, 2020 | Defeat Lust & Pornography
“You need to stop viewing your past with pornography as addiction and sin and start viewing it as trauma and abuse.” I sat in a chair across from my counselor, weeks away from my wedding, struggling with guilt and anxiety over my years of pornography addiction. Though...
by Guest Author | Sep 23, 2020 | Protect Your Kids
Five years ago, I learned my son was struggling with pornography. I was shocked and devastated. Feeling guilty and hopeless, I struggled to sleep and cried endlessly. I couldn’t understand how this had happened. He grew up in a Christian home with Christian...
by Guest Author | Sep 17, 2020 | Rebuild Your Marriage
This article is written from the perspective of men struggling sexually and women in the Betrayal Trauma position. This can occur in both directions where the wife struggles and her husband is experiencing Betrayal Trauma. I have been a nurse for 20 years. I am a...
by Guest Author | Sep 14, 2020 | Defeat Lust & Pornography
For 20 years, I thought I was the only one: the only woman, especially a supposedly Christian woman, who harbored shameful sexual secrets. I did everything I could to hide them and everything I could to continue in them. I juggled competing realities of an exhausting...
by Guest Author | Aug 31, 2020 | Defeat Lust & Pornography
Most of us think about sexuality as a very private compartment of our lives. Even in the innocence of childhood, we were subtly taught to treat everything sexual differently. We learned special names for our “private parts.” We were told not to touch or talk about...
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